Are you missing the charm from your marriage?
Do you feel like your partner is lacking interest in you?
Well, this is the problem that most marriages suffer and it ends up with both the partners either cheating on each other or separating their way forever. When tying the knots, people usually believe that they will stay together forever, but soon things start changing.
In order to solve this problem, there are many couples who make their way to the therapist to seek advice. Although there is no shame in doing that, after all, you can do at least this much to save your marriage, but there are many simple things that you can do without going to a therapist.
1 REALIZE THAT THERE IS A PROBLEM
The main problem is that most people are not even ready to realize that there is a problem with their marriage and think like everything is okay. However, things are not at all the way they should be. So, the first thing that you need to do is make yourself realize that there is a problem and it should be taken seriously. Keep a close eye on your partner’s mood and behavior. Has he started overreacting on small things and having mood swings? Has he stopped talking to you? Well, if this is happening to you, then there is really something that is missing from your relationship and you have to add that to make it fresh again.
2 PLAN DATES
Start by planning date nights open, as both of you need some time away from home where you can talk to each other in a fresh environment. But, be sure not to discuss anything related to work and children. This night belongs to both of you, so make it a success. Go to your favorite restaurant or the one where you first met. This will help both of you realize how you two fall in love with each other and how those days use to be.
3 START QUESTIONING
You have to make your relationship like it was when you started dating each other. In order to do that don’t talk about the future. Start questioning each other like you two are meeting for the first time. This will help you in bringing back the same charm that you use to have. Talk about your like and dislikes and try to be more open when expressing one’s feeling. Not only this, question each other about everything you think is affecting your relationship, as you can solve this problem by talking rather than being silent.
4 EYE GAZE EXERCISE
This is the most effective and useful exercise that you can do to revive your lost love. All you have to do is just sit down on your knees and then start looking into each other’s eyes. The rule is that you can’t talk or touch each other, just sit and look in the eyes. Do this exercise for 1-2 minutes and try to do this every day. Eyes are the most beautiful part of the body and it reflects the soul of the person. By looking in the eye you can see more than what you are looking at.
5 COMPLIMENT ONE ANOTHER
Remember how you use to complement each other for the even small thing that you notice. But, as time passes this thing decreases and instead of complimenting each other most of the couples start noticing each other mistakes. This affects the relationship more than anything else. So, the most important thing that you need to do is start complimenting each other in the same way you use to do. Try noticing small things that are good in your partner and that separates him from everyone else in the whole world. It will help you realize how lucky you are in the whole world for having him in your life, thus there are chances that you stop taking this relationship for granted.
6 TRY TO LISTEN TO EACH OTHER
In order to understand one another’s problem, you need to listen to each other. Putting a deaf ear towards your partner can make the things even worse, so instead of ignoring each other to prevent fights, just sit down and give one another a chance to speak. It’s better to set up some rules in the relationship from the beginning, this is how you both can work out your problems in an effective way. Listen carefully and think with a cool mind what the problem is really, show some flexibility and don’t stick to the statement that it’s not your fault, maybe you are not seeing the situation from his perspective.
7 GO FOR A MASSAGE TANTRA BARCELONA
The last thing that you can do to bring your marriage back to track is going for an erotic massage Barcelona. Massage Tantra Barcelona uses sexual energy to reach consciousness. Used to free your body and mind and revive the lost physical intimacy. Thus, you can find your sexual intimacy that is missing in your marriage through the massage tantra Barcelona. They are experienced and well trained in their work and know exactly how to provide you the pleasure and open up your mind to feel the world around you like you have never felt. You can choose from a male masseur Barcelona or erotic masseur depending upon your specifications. This is the best way, as most of the time people are unable to satisfy their partners and this is the main cause that leads to the end of the relationship.
Breaking up a marriage is the most painful thing to experience, especially if you believed that you both were made for each other. There are many things that evaporate love between two people, but the thing is how to bring that love back. It is not that difficult, but you both have to work together and give your best to do this. Follow these simple steps and set up some rules in your relationship. This can help you both in finding a solution to the problem.